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"You got the hots for him over there huh?" She said as she eyed heavily pierced, brunette god. I instantly flushed. And just as I did, he turned and looked at me. "Oh fuck." I looked down into my coffee cup hoping he wouldn't notice my embarrassed expression. "Is that the best you got?" He asked. I looked up. It was him. Heavily pierced brunette god was looking right at me. "You talking to me?" I pointed weakly at my chest. "He shook his head amused. "Come have a seat over here and talk to me instead of sneaking looks at me, its much more direct this way." He smiled devilishly and pulled a chair out for me and then motioned for me to sit beside him. I swallowed hard, picked up my cigarettes and proceeded."COPYRIGHT MARINA JADE PATRICK
Sunday, January 8, 2012
The Ex
Post Numero Uno!
How do you overcome the dreaded EX?
I will tell you but unfortunately not in this post. I will however prove to you that change is nearly impossible for a man of any age no matter what the situation, I guarantee you girl, it's all the same sh**.
We read so much about how to get them back and how it's possible to change them and find our happily ever after, but is this all really true? Does it last? Can he really change his god-given (or if you aren't religious like myself) DNA composed make-up?
After spending 6 years off and on with a boy who calls himself a man, who is, get this, 7 years older than me, and let me tell you I am merely months away from my 21st birthday and counting down the days, but let me just say ladies, if I have not seen change in 6 years with one man, both in and out of relationship with me, can you really expect him to change beyond those years?
If after even one year he has not made changes to his lifestyle to suit your relationship, how can you expect him to do so after that? Because if beyond the "honeymoon stage" when he is at his peak of interest in you and is willing to do almost anything for you, EXCEPT for those changes, do you really think that comfort and time will change his ways?
NO. They will not. Maybe I am saying this because I have been jaded and just found out last night that this ex boyfriend of mine has just impregnated a girl even younger than me, can you believe, JUST for the sake of having a child!
I've discovered in the past 24 hours that the ex that I have been longing for and been romancing off and on with since I was 16 years old has been brainwashing numerous other girls into rejecting all of their friends, becoming his little tool and puppy and now, his surrogate.
But what else can I say except I should have expected it! He is the exact same person he was when I met him, a sweet talking, womanizer, with the lines straight from the movies who had the ability to isolate me from my entire world and turn it into HIS world. 6 Years. 6 years and he has lived in the same apartment since his ex before me! 6 years and he is still wearing the same robot tee shirt on his facebook profile pics which then, used to be myspace profile pics.
How can we expect change from a creature that is really quite simple?
There are few things that men want from us and they are as follows:
1. Sex
2 .A Child with their last name to be carried on
3. More Sex
4. Companionship when they finally sober up and realize that being alone is really not all that great
5. To fit in, they marry us. Because it's the "normal" and "right" thing to do
6. A trophy. Enough Said
Does any of this sound familiar or am I the only woman out there who is finally realizing that a lot of guys are just as selfish as we are, and yet refuse to admit it?!
This is a little bit of a rant and you know its weird because I am the biggest hopeless romantic there is out there!
Can you believe this guy did this to me?
Who else is understanding any of this?
Anyone?
How do you overcome the dreaded EX?
I will tell you but unfortunately not in this post. I will however prove to you that change is nearly impossible for a man of any age no matter what the situation, I guarantee you girl, it's all the same sh**.
We read so much about how to get them back and how it's possible to change them and find our happily ever after, but is this all really true? Does it last? Can he really change his god-given (or if you aren't religious like myself) DNA composed make-up?
After spending 6 years off and on with a boy who calls himself a man, who is, get this, 7 years older than me, and let me tell you I am merely months away from my 21st birthday and counting down the days, but let me just say ladies, if I have not seen change in 6 years with one man, both in and out of relationship with me, can you really expect him to change beyond those years?
If after even one year he has not made changes to his lifestyle to suit your relationship, how can you expect him to do so after that? Because if beyond the "honeymoon stage" when he is at his peak of interest in you and is willing to do almost anything for you, EXCEPT for those changes, do you really think that comfort and time will change his ways?
NO. They will not. Maybe I am saying this because I have been jaded and just found out last night that this ex boyfriend of mine has just impregnated a girl even younger than me, can you believe, JUST for the sake of having a child!
I've discovered in the past 24 hours that the ex that I have been longing for and been romancing off and on with since I was 16 years old has been brainwashing numerous other girls into rejecting all of their friends, becoming his little tool and puppy and now, his surrogate.
But what else can I say except I should have expected it! He is the exact same person he was when I met him, a sweet talking, womanizer, with the lines straight from the movies who had the ability to isolate me from my entire world and turn it into HIS world. 6 Years. 6 years and he has lived in the same apartment since his ex before me! 6 years and he is still wearing the same robot tee shirt on his facebook profile pics which then, used to be myspace profile pics.
How can we expect change from a creature that is really quite simple?
There are few things that men want from us and they are as follows:
1. Sex
2 .A Child with their last name to be carried on
3. More Sex
4. Companionship when they finally sober up and realize that being alone is really not all that great
5. To fit in, they marry us. Because it's the "normal" and "right" thing to do
6. A trophy. Enough Said
Does any of this sound familiar or am I the only woman out there who is finally realizing that a lot of guys are just as selfish as we are, and yet refuse to admit it?!
This is a little bit of a rant and you know its weird because I am the biggest hopeless romantic there is out there!
Can you believe this guy did this to me?
Who else is understanding any of this?
Anyone?
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